You did not think things through. You were carefree.
You stupidly took it for granted. You-the best you ever had.
You made her feel excluded. As if she was not even involved in your relationship. You were selfish and did not even notice. Instead of being a team, you decided that it would be a one-man show.
That drove them away.
She suffered for a long time. She retreated into her own mind and lived in her own tremendous pain. She probably even wanted to leave you, but you were sorry for her. She hoped you would recognize what you are doing wrong and change you-but you have not.
You danced alone on the dance floor of your life while sitting alone watching you.
You lost her because you did not want to bind yourself completely.
You knew that you had her. You knew that she was close. She was your safety net. You did not completely commit yourself because you did not appreciate her enough. In all the moments you had to choose-you or something or someone else-you chose the other option. For you she was a backup plan.
You lost her because you did not understand her.
She is not like everyone else and you are. It was impossible for you to understand her. It was impossible for you to understand what was going on in her head. She was always one step ahead of you. But she never made you aware of that. That’s how she loved you. You tried to be with her and you play it so easily.
You lost her because you did not trust her.
Maybe you did not trust her because you felt threatened by her. Maybe somewhere deep inside you knew that she was better than what you deserve, so you suspected her and questioned her motivations to love you. It was really bold of you to do that. I admire how shamelessly hypocritical you were.
You lost her because you did not see her for what she really is.
You have not recognized this special something that keeps you hidden inside. You did not understand it, because she never bragged about it. That’s how she is. She is humble and always puts others in front of her because she knows she will still be able to do it. You missed that – you should be ashamed to be a ‘blind’ man.
You lost her because you did not listen to her.
Her words never found their way to your heart and mind. You looked like you were listening, but you never did. That’s why you lost her.
You lost her because you did not recognize her value.
If things were the other way around, how would you feel? How would you feel if you gave everything and got nothing for it?
You would feel like shit-like you.
She is a girl who will always give everything she has, but you and those like you take her for granted. She then becomes the victim of her own goodness.