Do you have what makes a perfect friend?
Women often mistakenly believe that men are looking for outlandish top models as their girlfriend, but that’s not the case.
Most men want simple, down to earth women as girlfriends. In addition, they want a friend they can rely on and on whose shoulder they can cry. Yes, men are crying too!
Take a look at the qualities a great friend has and find out if you have what men are looking for.
1. IT IS SELF-SAFE
She is a woman who feels good in her skin. She is proud of who she is and she does not intend to change for someone.
She does not need anyone to tell her that she looks good and she does not ask men to tell her because she knows all about it herself.
She does not need a man who strengthens her self-confidence, because she never doubts herself
2. IT IS TIGHT
For men, it makes no sense to date women who behave like schoolgirls. When they grow up, they look for women who also behave like adults.
Men want women who are equal to them and who can challenge them intellectually.
They need challenges and they have their brains to do just that.
3. IT IS INDEPENDENT
She takes care of her own problems like an adult woman and that turns men on. Nobody wants to be the babysitter for his girlfriend.
If she does not manage to solve her problems with her job or general problems and constantly asks for help, men feel they can not breathe. They get the feeling that their girlfriend can not exist alone.
4. She takes care of her spirit and her body
As I wrote above, she does not have to be Adriana Lima, but she still has to take care of her mind and her body. She does not have to do that for her husband, but for herself.
Not only does she want to look good for her husband, but he is the one who is happy that she looks good to herself and not to him.
She takes care of her mind so she can be healthy and strong both internally and externally.
5. IT IS DEDICATED
This means that she always stands behind her husband. She stands behind him because she knows he’s right and if he does not have that, she’s still behind him.
She is loyal and she would never cheat on her husband. Especially if she and her husband have a relationship.
If men are sure their wives are loyal to them then they will do the same for them. Not all men are assholes, believe it or not!
6. IT IS NOT MATERIALISTIC
Most men do not want a materialistic woman for a serious relationship. They value the non-materialistic values that women have
That does not mean men never buy or surprise their women. No, I mean the complete opposite. They want a woman who does not ask them to do such things, because they are not obsessed with materialistic things.
Men do it of their own accord as a token of their love and appreciation.
Being not materialistic, a great friend deserves great surprises and dinners.
7. She lets you be a man
She is well aware of the fact that men are like that and women are like that. She does not force her husband to do girly things and does not rob him of his “masculinity”.
She respects the fact that men like to watch sports, like going to the pub with their friends, and that men harmlessly check other women-sometimes men do that because they can not help it, but that’s harmless.
8. YOU LIKE YOUR FRIENDS
She does not have to be a man herself, but she should certainly like his friends. If she is planning a serious relationship, then she knows she will be dealing with her husband’s friends.
She’s such a woman who makes sandwiches for her husband’s friends and invites them to a fun evening.
9. SHE TAKES YOUR MAN THAT HE CONTINUES TO CONTINUE TO DEVELOP
She brings out the best in her husband. She is his support and makes him to become even better than he already is.
Men sometimes think responsibly about their future. Sometimes men behave and feel like adults. All of this happens for a simple reason-because of her.
They have met the right woman and that’s why they want to keep evolving.